ok i knoe u guys probably dont care but this has been really bothering me. and i need advice
U see i hav this best friend (only friend) at skool..nd we've been friends for lik.. what.. 5 years. But now.. she calls me names like "annoying" and "wanna-be" and stuff like that and at first i thought she was just having a bad day but this has been going on 4 lik.. what.. a week? caz lik i talk A LOT and lik... i'll say something random lik cheese and then i'll be like "i like cheese.. cheese is good.. i hav a lot of chees in my house.. do you hav a lot cheese?" (btw.. i never really talked about chese this is just an exampe) and then she'll just act like shes ignoring me and then i'll b like "my cat eats cheese" and then i'll go on and on and on (nd i cant even control myself) and then she'll be lilke "SHUT UP! UR SO ANNOYING" and she never did that be4.. but now she always says that..
Another thing is that now she calls herself a loner and she says "basically a loner is a person who dosnt hav a lot of friends and she explained it to me.. and then she says shes a loner because the only friends she has are her siblings.. but she never said i was one of them.. and when i thought about it i noticed..she never ever really acknowledged me as her friend the last time she did was what 3 years ago? and now.. i cant even talk to her.. if i say something like "i hav adhd" she'll be like "no u dont" and then she'll go on proving me wrong and making me feel bad
and.. i'll be like "I can type faster than anyone in the class" she'll b like "no u cant." and she'll put me down for that.. iz really really anoying... so lik yea i need advice can someone please giv me some?
here's some ideas.
1. Sit down with the school counselor and make him call her down to the office. you two can work it out, I know you can, be optimistic.
2. ask her what is going on; if she keeps ignoring you, ignore her too.
3. Talk to one of your other friends. you do have them, don't cha?
4. Don't be too random because I think that's what ticks her off to call you annoying. My best friend calls me names a lot but we're still best buddies.
5. when she calls you a name, say "right back atcha, sis." (I call people sis for some reason.)
Try some of them that looks like it would help. I hope I helped at least a little.
kk thanx for the help i think ur right about the random thing.. i am really random...and thank u again. :D i guess i'll ask one of my other.. friends at skool if there is something wrong... and thanx again :D